WYR? Community Guidelines

The WYR? community library lets couples share the question packs they make. When you publish a pack, other couples can see and play it — so a few ground rules keep it fun and safe for everyone. There is zero tolerance for the things listed under "Not allowed." Breaking these rules gets content removed and can get your account banned.

By publishing or browsing community packs, you agree to these guidelines and to our Terms of Service.

The spirit of it

WYR? is flirty, funny, and made for couples. Cheeky and spicy is welcome. Cruel, hateful, explicit, or creepy is not.

✅ Encouraged

• Playful, funny, and romantic prompts
• Spicy-but-tasteful "would you rather" questions
• Creative themes — date nights, deep talks, silly debates

🚫 Not allowed

• Sexually explicit or pornographic content, and absolutely nothing that sexualizes or involves minors — ever.
• Hate or harassment — no attacks or slurs based on race, ethnicity, national origin, religion, disability, gender, gender identity, sexual orientation, or age.
• Threats, bullying, or promotion of violence or self-harm.
• Personal information — no names, phone numbers, addresses, or private details about real people (including doxxing).
• Illegal content or anything promoting illegal activity.
• Spam, scams, or impersonation.
• Content you don't have the rights to — don't copy other people's work.

How moderation works

• Filtering: packs are automatically scanned when published; disallowed content is refused or held for review.
• Reporting: tap ••• → Report on any pack. Reported packs are hidden automatically while we review them.
• Action: we review reports and remove violating content and ban repeat offenders, generally within 24 hours.
• Blocking: tap ••• → Block to stop seeing any publisher's packs, immediately and permanently.

A few things to know

• Publishing is public. Anyone using WYR? can find and install your pack. Don't publish anything you'd want kept private.
• Installs are copies. When someone installs your pack, they get their own copy; editing or unpublishing later won't remove copies already installed.
• You're responsible for what you publish.

Questions or reports

Email us any time: support@thewyrapp.com

Thanks for keeping WYR? kind. 💞